This is a long one so bare with me..


My daughter list her both grandads a year apart, she's always had meltdowns some times it can take me over an hour to calm her down, she's just turned 10.

These are the things she does.

She's really clingy to me and fears over me dying and family dying.
If I'm talking to her for example ask her what drink would she like she always reply eith well what one do you think I should have. Always looking for reasurance, also of I change my tone of voice she goes into a meltdown n gets me to repeat what I said it a nice tone (even no I'm.not shouting), when she writes at school if there is a gap in her letter she has the urge to colour it in and the urge to stretch her body while she does it, I'm going to book in dr as I'm not sure if it's autism also. She's not like this at school she never gets in trouble at school, it's like she bottles it all up and explodes when she comes home, only to me and it makes me feel I have failed her, also if she gets something new she has to start collecting them and watches about them on YouTube, also if I give her donething for example.we had pub tea the other night I gave her an onion ring and she wrapped it up and took it home, didn't realise she had it and she said before I didn't eat the onion ring u gave me n she got really upset over it when k told her she had to throw it away, she said jt would make me sad, I told her it wouldn't but she won't grasp it. Thankyou for reading