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Steve P
21-02-06, 16:51
I read the Daily Mail article today and it hit me like a bombshell. Although I first had "one of my funny turns" about 4 years ago, Nicola's description of her traumatic episode on the motorway resounded with me, having had a similar experience just before Xmas. where I was overcome with a wave of otherworldliness (my word!) at 80mph on the M25. I managed to find a slip road and deep breathe for 1/2 hour before the panic subsided.

On the face of it I'm a confident, outgoing man. Company director, sing in a band, give major presentations to the corporate world; but the feeling usually comes when I'm relaxing over the weekend or evening, NOT during what could be perceived as a stressful situation, like public speaking. I seem to be in control at those times. It usually starts with a tingling sensation in my calves, then a wave of dizziness and short breaths.

I've had the lot in the last 4 years - MRI, blood tests, counselling, anti-depressants etc - but found that the best way to handle it is just to be positive and treat every day like your last (without the morbid connotations!). The only frustrating thing for me is an all-pervasive tiredness which can last for days sometimes. When that happens I just try to go with the flow and rest up until it passes. And deep, deep breathing really does help!

I look forward to becoming an active member of the forum, so thanks for having me!

Lozzie
21-02-06, 16:58
Hi Steve and welcome to NMP x you will find alot of people on here with similar problems and will make lots of new friends x
If you ever need to talk there is always someone here

Luv Laura

trac67
21-02-06, 20:16
Hi Steve,

Welcome to the forum, you will get a lot of good advice here and make some new friends.

Take care

Trac xx

'Live your life with arms wide open, today is where your book begins, the rest is still unwritten'

jill
21-02-06, 20:29
Hi Steve

WELCOME TO THE SITE :D

There are lots of nice people here who will help and support you.

TAKE CARE

LOVE JILLXX


When you fear something,
learn as much about it as you can.
Knowledge conqers fear.

sueiamnew
21-02-06, 20:30
Hi Steve and welcome to the site.

nomorepanic
21-02-06, 21:42
Hi Steve

We are not alone with our fears of driving.

Check these out ...

I am currently having CBT for it.

That post is here .....

CBT therapy for driving problems - my diary (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7162)

Here are some other posts about driving ....

Hi new member mom w/ panic and dp/dr (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1239)
Driving (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=6038)
driving phobia (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5105)
Hi, I am new and need re-assurance (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=6527)
Panic - When driving (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=6631)
Panic attacks while driving (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7291)

Also on the website are some coping techniques I use ...
How to cope with Panic Attacks, Anxiety, Phobias and OCD (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/NMPcms.php?nmppage=coping)

There is a bit on coping whilst driving on that page.

Hope these help.


Nicola

Karen
21-02-06, 21:58
Hi Steve

Welcome to the forum.

Karen



Happiness is not a state to arrive at but a manner of travelling.

sal
21-02-06, 23:43
Hi Steve

Firstly welcome to the forum. You will get lots of support and understand here and it is a great start to realise you are not alone in how you feel.

My advice to you could be that you cope really well, high powered job but when it comes to relax thats when it goes pear shaped. Through the years i have learnt that about myself, through crisis i cope like i am made to do so and better than anyone i konw but once it has died down i fall apart when the pressure is no longer there, so i do understand how you feel.

I seem to take a grip then when i dont have to anymore it all comes crashing down.

Look forward to hearing more from you.

Love Sal xx


Dont mess up the best things in your life, just because at present you are unsure who you are.


"Life is a distance and to travel that distance you were given the strength and guidance to do so".

Steve P
22-02-06, 00:27
Hey, thanks for the kind welcome, everyone! It means a lot already. Talk to you soon.

sal
22-02-06, 00:59
Hope to hear from you soon

Love Sal xx


Dont mess up the best things in your life, just because at present you are unsure who you are.


"Life is a distance and to travel that distance you were given the strength and guidance to do so".

tara
22-02-06, 08:27
Hi Steve welcome to the site. You sound really postive about yourself and this really helps! Tara

seh1980
22-02-06, 08:32
Welcome aboard!! :D

"If life were simple, word would have got around"